Kisi Ke Liye Kitna Bhi Karo Quotes That Hit Straight to Heart

Introduction

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you do for someone, it’s never enough? Maybe it’s a friend who never returns your support, a partner who takes you for granted, or a family member who always expects more. In Indian culture, where relationships and emotions run deep, we often give endlessly – from our time, love, money, or emotional energy – and still wonder, “Kya yeh sab kuch karne ke baad bhi kuch kami reh gayi?”

This article is a heartfelt journey through the powerful idea of “kisi ke liye kitna bhi karo, kam hi lagta hai” (no matter how much you do for someone, it always feels less). We’ll explore this emotion through 200 simple, unique, and meaningful quotes that reflect the depth of giving, love, and disappointment.

Each quote is written in everyday, easy-to-understand Hindi-English mix, perfect for Instagram captions, WhatsApp status, farewell notes, or self-reflection. These quotes are especially crafted for Indian readers – rooted in our values of samarpan (dedication), nishkam seva (selfless service), and the bittersweet truth of expectations in relationships.

Whether you’re healing, giving, or simply expressing your heart, this collection will make you feel seen, understood, and supported.

Part 1: Emotional Quotes on Giving Without Limits 

These quotes speak of unconditional effort – the emotional labor we put in without counting returns.

1. Kisi ke liye dil se kiya sab kuch, phir bhi kami reh gayi.
2. Apni har khushi uski khushi mein dhoondhi, par usne meri dard tak nahi dekha.
3. Dil diya, sab kuch diya, usne sirf shabd liye.
4. Har baar maafi di, har baar tod diya gaya.
5. Har baar socha is baar samjhega, par har baar galat sabit hua.
6. Har baar socha, is baar samjhega… par har baar khud hi samajhna pada.
7. Har baar uske liye kuch naya kiya, usne purani hi galtiyaan dohraayi.
8. Har bar uski muskurahat mein apna dard chhupa diya.
9. Jab bhi usse zarurat thi, main tha. Jab mujhe thi, woh kahaan tha?
10. Jisne sab kuch chaha, uske liye maine sab kuch chhod diya.
11. Jitna diya, usse kahin zyada chhupa ke sah liya.
12. Jitna diya, usse zyada chhupa liya.
13. Khud ke emotions daba kar, sirf uske liye sab kuch jhela.
14. Kisi ke liye apna wajood mitaya, par usne mujhe hi bhool diya.
15. Kisi ke liye apne sapne tak chhod diye, usne kabhi thanks bhi nahi kaha.
16. Kisi ke liye khud ko badal diya, par use woh bhi pasand nahi aaya.
17. Kisi ke liye poora dil de diya, usne tukdon mein lautaya.
18. Main har baar peeche raha, sirf uski khushi ke liye.
19. Main har baar pighalta raha, woh har baar pathar bana raha.
20. Main har baar uske liye khud ko bhool gaya, par usne kabhi yaad bhi nahi kiya.
21. Main har baar uske saath tha, par uske liye main kabhi bhi nahi tha.
22. Main har waqt uske liye tha, par jab mujhe zarurat thi, woh nahi tha.
23. Main har waqt uske saath tha, par use kabhi meri zarurat hi nahi thi.
24. Maine rishton ko sajaya, usne waqt ke saath bigaad diya.
25. Maine toh apna sab kuch daav par laga diya, par usne kabhi seriously nahi liya.
26. Maine toh chaha ki woh khush rahe, par woh toh mujhe rulata raha.
27. Maine toh dil se sab kuch diya, par uske liye woh bhi kaafi nahi tha.
28. Maine toh rishta nibha diya, usne sirf naam tak rakha.
29. Pyaar diya, waqt diya, par zarurat sirf sukoon ki thi.
30. Rishta banaya, nibhaya, bachaya… sab akela hi kiya.
31. Uske liye har baar khud ko prove kiya, par usne mujhe kabhi samjha nahi.
32. Uske liye har mod par ruka, par usne mujhe akela chhod diya.
33. Uske liye itna kuch kiya ki apne liye kuch bacha hi nahi.
34. Uski har khushi meri zimmedari thi, meri khushi ka toh koi tha hi nahi.
35. Uski har zarurat meri zimmedari ban gayi, meri zarurat kabhi uski nahi bani.
36. Uski khushi ke liye apni neend bhi chhodi, usne meri aankhon ke aansu tak nahi dekhe.
37. Uski khushi meri poori duniya ban gayi, par main uski list mein bhi nahi tha.
38. Usne sirf apna comfort dekha, maine toh uska future tak socha.
39. Waqt diya, pyaar diya, bharosa diya… usne sirf bewafai di.
40. Waqt ki kimat usne tab samjhi, jab hum milna chhod gaye.

Part 2: Quotes on Feeling Unseen or Unappreciated 

These quotes express the pain of being taken for granted even after giving your all.

41. Maine toh uske liye sab kuch kiya, par usne kabhi mujhe dekha hi nahi.
42. Apne emotions ko uske liye daba diya, usne mujhe hi zakhm de diye.
43. Har baar chaha ki woh appreciate kare, par usne bas complain hi kiya.
44. Har baar khud se jhooth bola ki sab theek hai, sirf uski khushi ke liye.
45. Har baar maine hi shuruat ki, usne toh kabhi rasta bhi nahi poocha.
46. Har baar mujhe hi blame kiya gaya, jab ki maine toh sirf nibhaya tha.
47. Har baar socha is baar shayad kuch badlega, par sab kuch waisa hi raha.
48. Har baar umeed ke saath kuch diya, par har baar nirasha mili.
49. Har baar use sambhala, par usne mujhe kabhi pakad ke bhi nahi rakha.
50. Har baar uski galti ko maaf kiya, usne meri ek galti nahi chhodi.
51. Har baar uski pasand banne ki koshish ki, par main uski list mein tha hi nahi.
52. Jab maine uske liye khud ko tod diya, tab usne mujhe hi kamzor kaha.
53. Jab tak uska kaam tha, tab tak main tha. Kaam khatam, rishta khatam.
54. Jis pal usne meri kadar nahi ki, wahi pal sabse dardnaak tha.
55. Jis rishte mein maine apna sab kuch daal diya, uske liye woh sirf ek option tha.
56. Jise apna sab kuch maan liya, usne mujhe hi gair samajh liya.
57. Jise har baar samjha, usne mujhe hi kabhi samjha nahi.
58. Jise har din duaon mein manga, usne har din ignore kiya.
59. Jise sabse zyada chaha, usne hi sabse zyada ignore kiya.
60. Kabhi uske liye khud se door ho gaya, usne kabhi kareeb aane ki koshish nahi ki.
61. Kisi ke liye apne aansu chhupaye, usne meri muskurahat tak jhoothi keh di.
62. Kisi ke liye apni har khushi sacrifice ki, par usne kabhi yeh nahi dekha.
63. Kisi ke liye duniya se lad gaya, usne hi mujhe chod diya.
64. Kisi ke liye itna kuch kiya, phir bhi akhir mein badnaam main hi hua.
65. Kisi ke liye khud ko har baar badla, usne mujhe hi kharaab keh diya.
66. Main uske liye har waqt available tha, par jab mujhe zarurat thi, woh busy tha.
67. Main uske liye kuch bhi kar sakta tha, par usne kuch bhi nahi kiya.
68. Main uske liye zarurat tha, bas zarurat tak hi tha.
69. Maine har baar dil se chaha, usne har baar dimaag se tola.
70. Maine rishta nibhaya, usne bas waqt guzara.
71. Maine toh kab kaafi banne ki koshish ki, par woh kabhi satisfied hi nahi hua.
72. Maine toh sirf uski khushi chahi, usne toh mujhe hi bhool jaana chaha.
73. Maine toh uska har dard apna bana liya, usne mera dard kabhi mehsoos nahi kiya.
74. Maine uski duniya banani chaha, par uske liye main hi anjaan ho gaya.
75. Rishta usne shauk ke liye banaya, maine zimmedari samajh ke.
76. Uske ek muskaan ke liye main sab kuch luta diya, usne ek baar bhi thank you nahi bola.
77. Uske ek phone call ke liye kitni baar raat bhar jaaga.
78. Uski khushi mein hi apni khushi dhoondta raha, par usne mujhe khud se door kar diya.
79. Usne kabhi mujhe meri hi nazar se nahi dekha.
80. Usne meri chuppi ko samjha hi nahi, bas tohmat lagata raha.

Part 3: Quotes on Self-Realization After Being Taken for Granted

These quotes reflect the moment of realization – when we recognize our own worth after being unvalued.

81. Ab samajh aaya, pyaar sirf dena nahi hota, lena bhi zaroori hai.
82. Ab chahat nahi, sukoon chahiye.
83. Ab khud se pyaar karna seekh liya hai, kisi aur ke liye mitna nahi.
84. Ab kisi ke liye nahi, apne liye kafi hoon.
85. Ab kisi ke liye nahi, khud ke liye jeena chahata hoon.
86. Ab kisi ki zarurat nahi, khud mein hi poora hoon.
87. Ab main kisi aur ki zarurat nahi, apni pehchaan hoon.
88. Ab samjha ki jo mujhe deserve karta hai, woh kabhi mujhe ignore nahi karega.
89. Apna wajood samjha, ab kisi mein khud ko nahi dhoondhta.
90. Apne aansuon ka mol samjha, ab kisi ke liye unhe behne nahi dunga.
91. Apne dard ko samjha, apne liye jeena seekha.
92. Apne liye jeena bhi ek zarurat hai, sirf farz nahi.
93. Apne liye sochna khudgarzi nahi hoti, zarurat hoti hai.
94. Apni value pehle samjho, warna log use karte rahenge.
95. Har baar khud ko uske liye tod diya, ab khud ko jod raha hoon.
96. Har baar maine uski khushi chuni, ab apni muskurahat pe haq hai mera.
97. Har judai ek naya raasta dikhati hai.
98. Jab apne liye khade ho gaye, tabhi log pehchaan paaye.
99. Jab tak khud se pyaar nahi karte, tab tak duniya se umeed mat rakho.
100. Jis din khud ko samjha, duniya ki samajh bekar lagne lagi.
101. Jis din khud se rishta ban gaya, us din sab kuch badal gaya.
102. Jo chala gaya, shayad uski manzil kuch aur thi.
103. Jo khud se pyaar karta hai, usse duniya ke dard chhote lagte hain.
104. Jo log tumhe samajh nahi paaye, unhe samjhana bhi bekaar hai.
105. Jo mujhe nahi samjhta, usse samjhane ki koshish bhi nahi karunga.
106. Jo mujhe samajh nahi saka, woh meri kahani ka hissa nahi ban sakta.
107. Jo rishta khud se todta hai, woh kisi se nahi judta.
108. Kisi aur ke liye khud ko khona, sabse badi bewakoofi thi.
109. Kisi ke jaane se khud ki kadar samajh aayi.
110. Kisi ke pyaar mein khud ko mat khona, warna zindagi bhar pachtana padta hai.
111. Kisi ne khud se milwaya, usne juda karke hi sahi.
112. Kisi ne rula kar samjha diya, ki khud se bada koi nahi.
113. Main kisi aur ka intezaar nahi karta, khud ke liye waqt nikalta hoon.
114. Main kisi ki aadat nahi, zarurat banna chahta hoon.
115. Main sirf ek mohabbat nahi, ek misaal hoon.
116. Main sirf ek option tha, par ab apne liye priority ban gaya hoon.
117. Maine khud ko itna diya hai, ki ab kisi aur se kuch nahi chahiye.
118. Maine khud ko jeet liya, ab kisi ko khone ka darr nahi.
119. Maine sabke liye socha, ab thoda apne liye bhi soch liya.
120. Pata chala ki khud se bada koi rishta nahi hota.

Part 4: Quotes on Love, Loyalty, and One-Sided Efforts 

These quotes reflect how one-sided love and loyalty often go unnoticed, despite pure intentions.

121. Maine toh wafaa ki misaal likhi, usne bewafai ka safha badhaya.
122. Apni duniya chhod ke uski duniya basayi, par usne mera wajood hi mita diya.
123. Apni har dua mein uska naam liya, usne har list se mera naam kaat diya.
124. Har baar mohabbat ki, par jawab mein sirf khamoshi mili.
125. Har baar socha, pyaar badhega, par uska interest kam hota gaya.
126. Har raat uski yaadon mein jaagi, par usne kabhi mujhe yaad bhi nahi kiya.
127. Jab tak use meri zarurat thi, tab tak main uska tha.
128. Jise chaha, usne hi chhod diya – kya irony hai zindagi ki.
129. Jise dil se chaha, usne dil hi tod diya.
130. Jitna pyar diya, utni hi udaasi mili.
131. Jitna pyar kiya, utni hi chot mili.
132. Jitna sach tha mera pyaar, utna jhootha tha uska saath.
133. Jo baat dil mein thi, kabhi us tak pahuch hi nahi paayi.
134. Kisi ke liye kitna bhi karo, jab uske dil mein jagah na ho, sab bekaar lagta hai.
135. Main har baar uska intezaar karta raha, usne kabhi pucha bhi nahi.
136. Main har baar wafadar tha, usne har baar bepanah bewafai di.
137. Main har din uske liye jeeta tha, par uske din mein kabhi mera naam nahi tha.
138. Main toh uske liye sab kuch tha, par uske liye main sirf ek option tha.
139. Main uske liye har bar samay par tha, usne mujhe kabhi samay nahi diya.
140. Maine sirf ek baar usse maanga, usne har baar mujhe thukra diya.
141. Maine toh apna sab kuch uske naam kiya, usne mujhe kab ka paraya kar diya.
142. Maine toh apna sab kuch uspar chhod diya, usne mujhe hi bekaar samjha.
143. Maine toh mohabbat ko ibadat samjha, usne toh usse mazaak bana diya.
144. Maine toh sirf use chaha, usne toh sirf use chaha jo uske liye faida ka tha.
145. Maine toh zindagi uske naam likhi, usne toh panno ko bhi phaad diya.
146. Mohabbat ek taraf se thi, chot dono taraf lagi.
147. Mohabbat ka matlab samjha, lekin uske liye toh sirf waqtpass tha.
148. Mohabbat thi, isiliye bardasht kiya… samajh hoti toh chhod deta.
149. Mohabbat toh poori thi, bas usme uski kami thi.
150. Mujhe uski aadat thi, usse meri aadat bhi nahi bani.
151. Pyar mein itna kho gaya tha ki apni pehchaan hi bhool gaya.
152. Pyar sirf diya ja sakta hai, lekin sammaan milna bhi zaruri hai.
153. Uske ek call ka intezaar karte karte din-be-din beet gaye.
154. Uske saath waqt guzara nahi, zindagi guzari thi.
155. Uski har khushi meri dua thi, par meri khushi uski soch mein bhi nahi thi.
156. Uski muskurahat ke liye har baar rul gaya.
157. Usne meri loyalty ko kabhi importance nahi di.
158. Usne sirf tab yaad kiya jab kisi aur ne chhod diya.
159. Wafadar rahe hum, par usne toh bewafai ko aadat bana liya.
160. Waqt ka intezaar kiya, par usne toh waqt nikal diya.

Part 5: Quotes on Acceptance and Letting Go 

These quotes gently express how healing begins the moment we stop chasing and start choosing ourselves.

161. Ab chhod diya hai un logon ke peeche bhaagna, jo rukna hi nahi chahte.
162. Aakhir mein jo raha, woh main tha – mere liye kaafi hai.
163. Aakhir mein, sirf apne saath reh jaate hain.
164. Ab bewajah kisi ke liye roenge nahi.
165. Ab khud ki zindagi ka hero banna hai.
166. Ab kisi se kuch nahi chahiye – bas sukoon aur apni company.
167. Ab na gila hai, na shikwa… bas khud ke liye waqt hai.
168. Ab zindagi mein shanti chahiye, rishte nahi jo har waqt pareshaan karen.
169. Apni sukoon ke liye, kuch logon se doori zaruri hai.
170. Chhodna asaan nahi tha, par zaroori tha.
171. Dil toh diya tha, lekin ab wapas le liya hai.
172. Har baar haar ke bhi muskura raha hoon, kyunki ab khud ke liye jee raha hoon.
173. Har baar kisi aur ke liye khush hone ka dikhawa nahi karenge.
174. Har chhod diya, ab kuch pakadne ka waqt hai – apne sapne.
175. Har dard sikhata hai ki khud se pyaar zaruri hai.
176. Har kisi ke liye na kaho, kabhi-kabhi yeh zaruri hota hai.
177. Har kisi ke liye sab kuch karne ka matlab yeh nahi ki woh samjhega bhi.
178. Har kisi ki soch aapke jaisa nahi hoti – aur yeh bhi theek hai.
179. Har pal uske bina jeena seekh gaya hoon.
180. Har raat uski yaad mein nahi jaagta – ab khwabon mein apne sapne hain.
181. Jise jaana tha, usne chhod diya; ab khud ko pakad liya.
182. Jise samajhna tha, usne samjha nahi; ab kisi ko samjhana nahi.
183. Jitna diya, ab utna hi wapas lena seekh raha hoon.
184. Jo cheez tootti ho, usse chipkane ka matlab nahi.
185. Jo chhod gaye, unke liye nahi, jo saath hain unke liye jeena hai.
186. Jo chhod ke chala gaya, uska intezaar ab band.
187. Jo dil todte hain, woh yaad nahi, sabak ban jaate hain.
188. Jo log aapki kadar nahi karte, unhe chordena hi sabse bada pyaar hai.
189. Jo log chhod gaye, unka shukriya – unhone mujhe mazboot banaya.
190. Jo rishte sirf ek taraf se chalte hain, unhe chhodna hi behtar hai.
191. Kabhi lagta tha sab kuch usi se hai, ab lagta hai sab kuch khud se hai.
192. Kisi ka intezaar karna band kiya, tab khud se milna shuru kiya.
193. Kisi ka intezaar karte karte khud se door ho gaya tha.
194. Kisi ka intezaar karte karte waqt barbaad karna ab nahi.
195. Letting go isn’t weakness – it’s the beginning of peace.
196. Main ab kisi se zyada umeed nahi rakhta.
197. Maine sab kuch kiya, ab khamoshi se sab kuch chhod diya.
198. Rishte jab bojh ban jayein, toh unhe chhod dena samajhdaari hai.
199. Samay sikhata hai ki kabhi kabhi chhodna jeet hoti hai.
200. Usse bhoolna nahi tha, lekin ab yaad bhi nahi aata.

Conclusion 

Life teaches us hard truths through relationships. One of the most painful is realizing that no matter how much you give – your time, your love, your care – it may never feel enough for some people. But that doesn’t mean your efforts were wasted.

“Kisi ke liye kitna bhi karo, kam hi lagta hai” is not a sign that you failed – it’s a reminder to value yourself more.

You gave because you loved. That love reflects your depth, not their lack. But now, it’s time to love yourself with the same intensity.

You deserve people who reciprocate, appreciate, and respect you. Until then, keep your heart soft, but your boundaries strong.

Frequently Asked Questions

What does “kisi ke liye kitna bhi karo, kam hi lagta hai” mean?

It means no matter how much you do for someone, it often feels like it’s never enough – especially when your efforts aren’t valued.

Why do people feel their efforts go unnoticed?

Because they give endlessly without getting love, respect, or acknowledgment in return.

Is it wrong to care too much?

Not at all. But it becomes harmful when it drains your peace or self-worth.

How do I know I’m giving too much?

If you feel emotionally tired, always adjust, and get nothing back – you’re giving too much.

What’s the emotional cost of being unappreciated?

It can lead to stress, loneliness, low self-esteem, and burnout.

How can I begin healing from such a relationship?

Start by setting boundaries, investing in mutual relationships, and choosing self-care.

Is it okay to let go of people who don’t value me?

Yes. Letting go is sometimes the first step to inner peace.

Is choosing myself over others selfish?

No. Self-love isn’t selfish – it’s survival.